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Stand Up 2 Cancer: My Family

SU2CMany of you remember how totally caught off guard we were last September. In fact, it was at the end of September. At this time last year, we were still floating around in our lives, unaware that cancer was forming in my Mother’s breast. The news was devastating; there’s no other way to put it. I can’t sugar coat it. I can’t make it sound pretty. It wasn’t even my breast and I was absolutely devastated.

It was my Mommy. It was that person who had always been strong, always been there and suddenly the tables were turned. It was my sudden thrust into the realities of being an adult child. Beyond being asked to bring food to a holiday meal, this was the startling and sobering reality: my parents were mortal. And it shook me to my core.

Mom underwent surgery and radiation. We did a lot of praying. We did a lot of crying. And now, I am so pleased to tell everyone again, she is cancer free. My Mom is once again healthy and she’s back to lifting both boys (which she couldn’t do after her surgery) and being the active, busy Mom that I have always known.

But it’s changed all of us.

And not just in the previously mentioned “crap-my-parents-are-mortal” way. Cancer is constantly on my mind anymore. Not constantly in a paranoid way. But enough that I’ve started reading more when its in the news and paying attention to new research. Why? It’s not as if we were a totally cancer free family prior to my Mom’s diagnosis. My great-grandfather and great-grandmother died of various cancers. Cancer also has taken lives in FireDad’s family. Maybe the change is because my Mother’s diagnosis directly affects me. She doesn’t carry the BRCA1 or BRCA2 gene (which means that I don’t) but I have a number of other risk factors. Of course, my mind then jumps to my daughter. Now both of her biological grandmothers have fought (and beat) breast cancer. It scares me out of my mind to think of that or to think of my sons and their future children.

And that’s why the Fire Family is Standing Up 2 Cancer. Research is needed. I don’t want to rock my kids’ world someday with a diagnosis. I don’t want their worlds to be rocked. I don’t want my grandkids’ lives to be changed in this way. I want money for research. And I want answers. And cures. Yesterday.

I’ve emailed my congress men and women. Have you? I’m sharing our personal family story right now. Have you? I’ll be tuning in at 8:00pm this Friday to watch the telethon. Will you? And sometime this week, the FireFamily will be launching stars for all in our family who have been affected by cancer. Will you?

Please. Stand Up 2 Cancer. Do your part. Not for my family. But for your own.

5 replies on “Stand Up 2 Cancer: My Family”

We lost my dad 4 years ago to lung cancer. It moved very fast from talking to my mom in February about a lingering cough from a holiday flu, to losing him that June.

I’m not at the point where I can really talk about it much. All of my grandparents were lost to cancer from the time I was in grade school through my Junior year of high school.

I’d share our family story but I don’t really think I can.

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